When was the last time you learned something from a TV drama?
When did a TV drama help you improve your conduct as a person to others, especially someone who has some issues? When was the last time you saw a TV play that revolved around two characters who were ‘special’ but kept the audience engaged through their conduct?
The recently concluded Pyar Ke Sadqay was one such play that started and ended on a positive note and delivered many messages on the way. It not just taught the audience many ways of parenting but also how to deal with people with special needs, for they are called ‘special’ for a reason.
Find out what the play preached and how it could be applied in our lives.
Don’t force kids to do what you want; let them go with the flow
Abdullah (Bilal Abbas) was good at mathematics yet he wasn’t allowed to master the subject, because his stepfather (Omair Rana) considered him a threat, if equipped with mathematical arsenals. Even his mother had no say in the matter and that’s one of the many reasons why Abdullah stuttered, wasn’t confident enough, and doubted himself every step of the way.
When his mother Mansoora (Atiqa Odho) put her trust in his abilities, he not only found out that his late father in law Munshi sahib was an innocent man but also helped reveal the true face of his stepfather, ending the drama on a high note.
Not only does this show that parents should trust their kids, but they should also stand by them so that they can achieve anything in life. And in the case of a ‘step’ parent or a ‘special’ kid, the duty of the biological parent increases!
Not every kid is a genius
For every parent, their kid is cute, talented, and in short a genius however that wasn’t the case when it came to Mahjabeen (Yumna Zaidi). She wasn’t as sharp as her friends, she didn’t excel in studies and all she wanted to do was live a happy married life. Instead of supporting her, her parents wanted her to excel in studies that weren’t possible for someone like her.
But she did turn out to be a sharp woman who observed that her horny father in law (Omair Rana) was touching her inappropriately, that her own husband Abdullah (Bilal Abbas) seemed distracted around her and that he was also bullied by his stepfather, which wasn’t normal. It was because of her astute observations that Mansoora (Atiqa Odho) managed to see the true face of her ‘husband’ who believed he was untouchable, until the girl he ‘touched’ brought his downfall, appropriately.
Parents need to realize that not every kid is a genius; some are good in school and some aren’t but that doesn’t mean that they should be ridiculed. Every kid has his or her strengths and weaknesses; it is the parents’ job to find out these strengths and weaknesses. Parents who realize their kids’ hidden talents are the ones who live happily ever after, whereas those who don’t figure out their kids’ superpowers neither have a happy end nor do their kids do anything extraordinary.
If a kid has some issue, solve it!
Had Mansoora (Atiqa Odho) been an attentive mother, she would have noticed the difference in her own son (Bilal Abbas) who was growing up to be a loser; she didn’t even ask her daughter (Srha Asgr) as to why she preferred to live with her aunt and not her mother, why she hated her stepfather and why was she always angry or sarcastic in his presence.
It is every parent’s duty to stay involved with their kids no matter how old they are so that by the time they are grown up and ready to start their own lives, their mother and/or father are able to guide them in a better manner. By distancing herself in her kids’ case, Mansoora did something that no mother or father should repeat in real life.
It was only when she got involved in her son’s life that things began to move in the right direction. Just imagine had she gotten rid of Sarwar (Omair Rana) much earlier, things would have ended happily for many … and Munshi sahab might have even survived!
Trust everyone, just don’t trust the devil inside them
It’s a very very bad world out there and no one is to be trusted, not even a teacher, a stepfather, a maid, an uncle, or even an aunt. Pyar Ke Sadqay taught the audience that no matter how good a person might look from the outside, the devil inside them is not to be trusted at any cost.
When Munshi sahib told Mansoora (Atiqa Odho) about Sarwar (Omair Rana) she should have sensed something and observed her husband’s behavior but she didn’t. When Abdullah told her that Sarwar went to drop Mahjabeen to her house, she should have created a scene. When Mahjabeen was being treated like a second class citizen in her susral, she should have taken a stand.
But she chose to trust Sarwar and others, allowing him to go scot-free, do anything, anywhere, and even embarrassing Abdullah in front of the entire office, an office that he owned and not Sarwar. We should trust everyone in the words of Donald Sutherland from The Italian Job, but we shouldn’t trust the devil inside them, and this play taught us exactly that!
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