HUM TV’s drama Dil Ruba may have ended but it has left a mark on the audience’s mind due to its ability to engage, enrage, and entertain.
It engaged the audience with its fast-paced storyline, it enraged the viewers when they saw boys falling left, right, and center of just one girl and entertained them with the beautiful execution. Not just that, it managed to deliver a few subtle lessons that would go a long way, if the viewers had their thinking cap on.
If not, then we have listed down four such lessons that might come in handy for parents, their sons, and their daughters out there:
Girls are not always at fault!
Just like fathers believe in ‘Boys will be Boys’ routine, every parent should also know about ‘Girls will be Girls’. When young, everyone needs attention be it a boy or a girl but when parents tend to ignore their kids, they turn into Sanam and Junaid. Sanam’s mother (Marina Khan) didn’t confront her when she brought gifts home, her elder sister (Durre Fishan) didn’t rat on her either while in Junaid’s case, his mother (Huma Nawab) encouraged him when she told him that he was hopelessly in love.
Yes, they all cared about them but they should have been more attentive – in Sanam’s case, the mother and sister were busy with an ailing father, in Junaid’s it was a strict father who had a one-track mind and was in some sort of debt with his elder brother.
And in this scenario, when Sabeeh (Mohib Mirza) gave Sanam undue attention, he got his heart broken while Ayaz (Asad Siddiqui) came into her life as a friendly neighborhood photographer and destroyed it. The rest followed although Sanam could have saved herself from trouble had she matured a little earlier than realizing her problem way too late. Whatever the reason, it was the fault of both the ‘boys’ and the girl, and it could have been avoided had the parents been more attentive and careful.
Always trust your family. Period!
We may not be able to choose our family but we can certainly choose how to deal with them, that’s what Dil Ruba taught us. If Sanam had reciprocated the love of her first cousin (Mohib Mirza), she might never have faced any trouble at all; if Junaid had listened to his father than contemplate suicide, he might have had a chance with his cousin; had Sanam’s Phupo (Laila Wasti) been there from the start, things might have been more rosy than troublesome for the two households, and had Sanam stayed on the path her Father in law (Shehryar Zaidi) set for her, life would have been set for her. She didn’t trust her family with her escapades into her fantasy world and that cost her the reality.
Good things come to those who wait!
Some of the characters in the play got the end they earned, not the one they deserved. Mohib Mirza’s Sabeeh wanted to marry his first cousin Sanam (Hania Aamir), got his heartbroken, saw her getting married to his younger stepbrother, missed the bus when she married her second husband, and was nowhere in sight when she got married the third time. It was only after realizing his mistake, and that his nephew was suffering that he agreed to marry Sanam, and became her fourth husband when he could easily have been her first.
Similarly, Sanam suffered a lot in her life, and had she died at the end instead of living happily ever after, that would have hurt the audience who would have remembered the end, but not in a good way. That would have been more Alpha Bravo Charlie, instead of Ehd-e-Wafa, and we all loved Ehd-e-Wafa for the happy ending, while still get saddened by talking about Alpha Bravo Charlie after so many years. The rest of the guys got the end they deserved be it Syed Jibran’s Khurram, Ghana Ali’s Natasha, Asad Siddiqui’s Ayaz, and Shehroz Sabzwari’s Junaid, who did try to outsmart life at some point in time but got outsmarted in the end.
‘Don’t trust the devil inside them’
Contrary to what Donald Sutherland said in The Italian Job, ‘I trust everyone, I just don’t trust the devil inside them’, Sanam trusted both everyone and the devil inside them. You may agree or disagree, but the boys here were to be blamed more than Hania’s Sanam, as she summarized very well in the final episode, in a speech to one of the guys who wanted to confront her, but got confronted instead. She told Shehroz Sabzwari’s Junaid that it was he who made the first move, he was the one who sent the gifts, he was the person who approached Sanam and wanted to marry her whereas she followed only after he threatened to kill himself.
The same goes for the rest of the guys who she trusted, but she shouldn’t have, a lesson she learned the hard way. Ayaz (Asad Siddiqui) was a fraud photographer who violated her trust by getting her photographed in a compromising position, Syed Jibran’s Khurram used her to gain his father’s trust and finally his property whereas her own brother Arsalan (Saad Azhar) disowned her without giving her the benefit of the doubt. Then there were the people who came into her life after her second marriage making her distrust the world more. In the end, it was her repentance that saved the day for her and her kid, as she married Sabeeh, the stepbrother of her first husband (Nabeel Zuberi) and also her first cousin.
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